{"id":280,"date":"2011-01-12T18:21:03","date_gmt":"2011-01-12T23:21:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/themaritalarts.com\/?p=280"},"modified":"2011-02-07T20:15:04","modified_gmt":"2011-02-08T01:15:04","slug":"attitudes-and-values","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/relationshiparts.com\/?p=280","title":{"rendered":"Attitudes and Values Part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Relationship Arts reflect a set of attitudes, values, intentions and skills that contribute to the lifelong process of creation and re-creation that is a committed relationship. The Relationship Artist is a person who dedicates him- or herself to the pursuit of a transcendent relationship, and who never takes the process for granted. Awareness of these attitudes, values, intentions and skills becomes a profoundly important part of the daily experience of life for the Relationship Artist, in the same way that awareness of sound and rhythm is elemental to the musician\u2019s work; awareness of form, color and line is essential to the painter; awareness of volume, form and texture is vital for the sculptor; and awareness of movement is indispensable to the dancer. And like the martial artist, the Relationship Artist is committed to pursuit of a centered, transcendent self-discipline that shapes all of the decisions of his or her life.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_283\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-283\" href=\"http:\/\/relationshiparts.com\/?attachment_id=283\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-283\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-283\" title=\"Fallingwater-Frank-Lloyd-Wright\" src=\"http:\/\/themaritalarts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Fallingwater-Frank-Lloyd-Wright-300x247.jpg\" alt=\"Fallingwater, Frank Lloyd Wright\" width=\"300\" height=\"247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/relationshiparts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Fallingwater-Frank-Lloyd-Wright-300x247.jpg 300w, https:\/\/relationshiparts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/Fallingwater-Frank-Lloyd-Wright.jpg 549w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-283\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Fallingwater, Frank Lloyd Wright<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a title=\"Discussion of Lloyd Wright Quote\" href=\"http:\/\/themaritalarts.com\/?page_id=286\" target=\"_self\">&#8220;All fine architectural values are human values, else not valuable.&#8221;<br \/>\nFrank Lloyd Wright<\/a><\/h2>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Relationship Artists see a creative challenge in the task of working out value and attitude conflicts. 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