“I’m a terrible cook, but if I could cook, I would see that as art as well, it’s how much creative energy you put into something.” Tracy Emin
You don’t have to be in a committed relationship. You really don’t. Why bother taking on this formidable challenge unless you really want to do it with all of your heart and soul? If you do choose to commit to a relationship you might as well do it with the kind of “creative energy” that can turn it in to art.